Emotions

 
The SOURCE of your emotions is only from one person. 
The SOURCE Is YOU. 
You choose how you feel at each moment. 
You create the feeling    
within yourself. 
Only one person creates love, anger and depression 
and it is you. It is your choice. 
Feel and do your emotions. 
Acknowledge them. 
Trash false beliefs. 
Other people's opinions are not your truth.
Move yourself out of negative emotions and into positive
    feelings by visualizing the following:  
DISCOMFORT
fog
 
to
LOVE & WARMTH
blue sky & warm sun
FEAR
dark cave
to
GRATITUDE, FAITH
I see my way out
flashlight
HURT
pause
 
to
CURIOSITY
put yourself in their shoes
ANGER
volcano

 
to
EXCITEMENT & PASSION
lava flow, making fertile land
FRUSTRATION
fenced in

 
to
DETERMINATION
energize, create a gate
DISAPPOINTMENT
made of glass
 
to
FLEXIBILITY
made of plastic
If plan A fails, do plan B
GUILT
self punishment
 
to
CONFIDENCE
onward with dignity
INADEQUACY
hurdles too high
 
to
CHEERFULNESS
go around, prepare
master it another day
OVERWHELM
avalanche!
 
to
VITALITY
snow cat scooping
just a portion today
LONELINESS
turtle

 
to
CONTRIBUTION
stick your neck out, move


Ice / water / vapor


It's science


Change your state.
Change your state of mind.
Change your current emotion.
Change your temperature.
Change your pressure.
Keep your cool.
Be still.
Solid as ice.
Warm up.
Mingle in a sea of people.
Heat up with passion, rise up, vaporize, get distant.

Hoping vs. Expecting

When you hope, you visualize 2 outcomes.
It might happen, It might not.
The pictures are dim, passive.

When you expect, you visualize 1 outcome.
It is clear.
Tell yourself it is going to happen.
You are confident,
you have power
and you are ready.

Change "I hope this happens"
To
"This Is going to happen"
or
"I WANT this to happen"


We have 4 ways we deal with emotions:

1. Avoid
2. Endure or deny
3. Compete
4. Get solutions, learn from them and use them

Ref: Book 'Awaken the Giant Within', chapter 11
by Anthony Robbins

heal, 2004feb04, emotions, color chart